Showing posts with label faith. Show all posts
Showing posts with label faith. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

The Most Important Lesson I Learned at Church Camp

I started attending camp at Yellow Creek Lake about 27 years ago.  As a young camper I was impressed by all the great, fun activities.  I especially loved crafts and swimming.  I enjoyed the relationships that I built with other campers and with volunteers over the years.  I could not imagine a summer without YCL.  In fact, during high school I began volunteering at the camp as much as I was allowed.  I even spent 6 of my 8 summers during college in ministry at the camp.  I never imagined that as an adult I would end up back in this same place that has so touched my life.  I can see though how God has been working on me for this place and this time at Yellow Creek.

Through the many years as a camper and a staff, I was learning something again and again - and it only hit me about a month ago.  I just realized that all of that time I had been learning the same lesson: Spiritual Retreat.

Just over a year ago, I began working at YCL as the program director.  This was not a part of my plan as a happy stay at home mama with 3 little boys.  I knew, however that God was leading me back to the camp, and that was confirmed after I chose to do the things I felt as though he had urged me to do.

During those first weeks, as I talked with a children's minister, who I highly respect, she asked me to, "explain why church camp is relevant in today's culture."  I was stumped.  I mean, I know it's valuable - but how do I explain what makes it "culturally relevant"?  I spent most of a year trying to figure this out.  Then, one morning as I was preparing to share with a church about the camp - I realized that our kids are in DIRE need of spiritual retreat.

Do you know that there are preschoolers involved in 3 or 4 activities a week?  I don't condemn their parents for wanting to have active, involved children.  Those kids are learning things my kids won't ever understand.  By high school many parents become chauffeurs, only spending time with their children as they shuttle them from one activity to the next.  Our kids are busy all the time.  When they are not busy - they are watching television, using the internet, talking on the phone.

Kids don't know what it is to have quiet in their lives.  They don't know what it is to "rest in the Lord".  It is hard to hear God's voice in a world that is constantly moving.

Church camp is culturally relevant because it helps kids learn spiritual retreat.  It gives busy students a chance to have a break from their constant movement.  It slows life down.  There is a unique opportunity to bond with spiritual leaders in a new way as students participate in small group devotions away from home.  Often it's easier to be open and honest when they are not afraid of who might be listening.

Church camp is relevant to our culture because it teaches healthy relationships with others (and without a computer or cell phone in the way).  It offers community in a very real way.  The relationships that children build at church camp can grow over the years and allow for life-long friendships that encourage spiritual growth beyond the school days.

Church camp is important in our culture because it allows students to step out of their comfort zone without fear of condemnation.  Kids can try new things, take risks, and have a supportive family behind them when they fall down.

It allows students to ask difficult questions of adults who are trained to help them search for answers.

Camps get kids that are media saturated outside, breathing natural air, chasing kick balls, fishing, shooting arrows, and so much more.  Camp is active in a world of inactivity.  Many children feel lost without a screen in front of their faces.  This is an opportunity to put the screen away and really interact, really live.

Many churches are failing to present the Gospel message in a meaningful way to children.  Many do a great job at presenting the message, but neglect to invite children into a relationship with God.  Church camp tells the story and invites the relationship.  Camps like Yellow Creek Lake even report back to the churches when life changing decisions have been made so that church leaders can follow up on them.

Have you considered sending a child to church camp?  If you're in or near northern Indiana, I highly recommend Yellow Creek Lake Camp Ministries.  If you are not, I recommend searching for local church camps that offer activities your child enjoys.


Monday, March 25, 2013

Faith & Health:Your Body the Temple #Mamavation

Photo of Herod's Temple (model) found on edibleteacher.com
1 Corinthians 6:19 says, "Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own."  

I cannot tell you how many times I heard this verse used as a child and youth in a manner that was not holy.  I heard people repeatedly use this scripture as an excuse to be intolerant about a variety of body modifications: tattoos, body piercings, even hair dye.  Here's the thing that really kills me:  I believed it.  I thought that these people, who I highly respected, certainly understood what the Bible was talking about.  Because I knew that they had my best interests at heart, and were much more knowledgeable than I, I never questioned it.

In fact, I was 28 years old before I finally allowed myself to be okay with coloring my hair.  Guess what - I don't think this was an unholy act.  I don't believe that this was a sin that destroyed my "temple".  I have a different understanding now about what this means.  I'm still working on forming my mind around the truth in the statement, and apply it to my life.

I plan to share more about what this means in my life over the next several weeks.  Please stay tuned, challenge yourself to think about your understanding of this verse.  Please share in the comment section.  What do you think this verse is about?  Is it a sin against the body to get a tattoo, color your hair, or pierce your body?  

My faith is a leading factor in my current desire to achieve better health.  I hope that as I share, you will also begin a journey toward self-improvement.

Friday, November 30, 2012

Our Advent Calendar



It's finished!  We've set out our plans for the next month's activities as we anticipate the coming of Christ!  Are you celebrating advent?  Are you interested in it?  Here are our family activities:

  1. Christmas on the Farm
  2. Decorate Christmas Tree (Sunday #1)
  3. Make Paper Chains
  4. Set up Nativity
  5. Drive around and look at Christmas Lights
  6. Santa Clause Day, decorate and hang stockings
  7. Make Christmas Ornaments, Open Stocking gifts
  8. Make Christmas Cookies
  9. Give Cookies to a friend (Sunday #2)
  10. Read a Christmas book at bed time.
  11. Make a Play Dough Baby Jesus
  12. Hot Chocolate for dinner!
  13. Send Money to Heifer International
  14. Sleep Over with a friend
  15. Board Game Night
  16. Christmas Movie and Popcorn (Sunday #3)
  17. Play with Nativity Set
  18. Decorate Wrapping Paper
  19. Rootbeer Floats
  20. Sing Christmas Songs Together
  21. Make a Present for a Friend
  22. Hike or Sled (weather depending)
  23. Christmas Treasure Hunt (Sunday #4)
  24. Christmas Eve Service, Light Christ Candle, Bake a Birthday Cake
  25. Christmas Day, Open Presents
Thank you What's in the Bible for helping us prepare our family with the new Everyday Emmanuel book and many fantastic blogs that gave us ideas to fill in the blanks for our family!

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

2 year old: On Adoration


ad·o·ra·tion

   [ad-uh-rey-shuhn]  Show IPA
noun
1.
the act of paying honor, as to a divine being; worship.
2.
reverent homage.
3.
fervent and devoted love.

Devoted love, honor: Adoration!

I'm learning it from my kids.  This weekend Crackers was showing his adoration of Poppy (my dad).  Not only does he love to talk to Poppy, he just loves being around him.  On Saturday we spent the day with 85 members of my dad's family.  I LOVE New Year's Day for that very reason.  Crackers sought out his Poppy.  He was more interested in watching Poppy eat than playing with the other kids.  Just look at this.


I want to be more like my 2 year old.  This little guy wanted nothing more than to sit on his knees and watch the one he adores.  (Nana tried to take him out of the kitchen and he just went right back to the same place).  

I'm just not good at being still and watching.  
He devoted his time to watching Poppy.  I want to devote my time to watching God.  I want to learn to truly adore God.

My boy ignored the whole world of activity around him so he could LITERALLY sit at the feet of my father.  Wow.  I can't even ignore the phone long enough to read a Bible passage some days.  

When we get close to "Poppy's house" my boys get excited.  Crackers yells and cheers, "Poppy's House!"  I don't do that with God's house.

But Jesus called the children to him and said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.
I tell you the truth, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it."
Luke 18:16-17

I've had plenty of conversations with people speculating about what this means.  I think my kids know.  They get it.  Somehow they understand adoration so much better than we do.  


Lord, help me learn from my children, who so effortlessly display their love for others.  Help me learn to take the effort to truly adore you.
Adoration

Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Bible Verse of the Month

August marked the beginning of new curriculum for the nursery and preschool Sunday school classes in our church.  Each month the classes will focus on a similar theme and share a Bible verse - the same verse and story all month long.

The story this month is Creation.  The verse is "God created the heavens and the earth."  Genesis 1:1

This afternoon I asked Monkey if he knew his Bible verse for Sunday school.

"Yesh".  He said with a grin.

"What is it?"

"Pray and Jesus say, "No Scared"."

Ah so we need to work on that a bit.  At least he's learning something about fear and prayer!

Monday, April 11, 2011

Names of God: Part 2

On Saturday I wrote about the way I experience God.  I understand him best through the picture of "father".  One of the challenges that was presented to us during our study on Friday evening was to think about what names or attributes of God we need to practice understanding better.  It really did not take me much time to come up with an answer to this question either.  I came up with 2 names that I need to work on understanding better.

Here is a list of the names of God: http://smilegodlovesyou.org/names.html

The first name that I recognize I need to work on identifying with more closely was "master".  See, I'm a do-it-yourself kind of girl.  I know what I want to do, and I can generally form a plan about how to get there, and I go for it.  I struggle at times to really slow myself down and let someone else (God) be in charge.  I work on it, I recognize it's a difficulty for me and so I try hard, but man I really am pretty stubborn at times and when I've got a plan, I've got to do it.  (That's probably where my boys get their stubbornness from).  So here I am, sitting on the edge of my sleeping toddler's bed admitting to myself and whoever else feels like reading this: I'm stubborn, I like to do it my way... I need help to learn that God is my Master.  A good, gentle Master - but he's the boss!

The second name that I knew I needed to work on is "Shalom" or "Peace".  I remember a time in seminary that a professor pointed out to me that maybe I feel tired because I am always doing so much.  It was true.  I was always on the go, doing school work, working at a daycare, helping at my church, and enjoying a healthy social life.  I still am very active -- I have a toddler and well, an almost toddler -- I stay home, but we're active even at home most of the time.  I do give myself a little more down time now than I used to.  It sure feels like I get less done!  Still, I don't give myself enough time to just relax and really experience the peace of God.  I'm working on that though - that was my personal assignment for the next week: Set aside time to just experience God's peace.  That's hard for me sometimes, but I'm getting better at it!

What about you?  How do you experience God?  Are there ways that you want to experience God but haven't really explored?

Friday, January 21, 2011

Delighted

This morning I was on my way to the church for Mom Time.  I was in a good mood and looking forward to gathering with this amazing group of women.  Somewhere along the way, actually, I don't think I had even got to the end of my street yet, God started talking to me.

You know what he said?  He said he is delighted in me.  Yep.  Delighted!  Wow, how amazing is that.  He reminded me that I am his devoted daughter and a princess in his household. 

Then I saw in my mind's eye, God sitting back and watching me with a smile.  God was smiling at me.  It made me think of how much I love to watch my boys.  They make my days so bright.  I take delight in watching them grow, explore, play, and learn.  It's hard to imagine the God of the universe feeling that way about me.  But he does!

Later I was thinking about Israel.  God loved and pursued his chosen people in spite of all their shot comings.  Even when they turned his back on Him.  I know I don't always do things the best way, but he loves me, he pursues me.  (That's another amazing description of God's love for me - PURSUES).  Again I was brought back to my boys, I love them even when they don't want to sleep, and when they cry for hours, even when they vomit or poop on the floor, and willfully refuse to obey.


Thank you God for loving me.  I am honored to be your devoted daughter, whom you pursue and take delight in.

Friday, January 7, 2011

Spiritual Gifts

Every other Friday I get the privilege of getting together with some great women.  We are moms.  I seriously could not ask for a better group of women to spend 2 hours with every other week (I'd gladly meet every week if we were able, and love the weeks that we are able to throw in an extra gathering).  This week during our meeting, we talked about spiritual gifts and took an assessment.  I have taken spiritual gifts assessments before and anticipated to discover that my gifts are "teaching, service, and helps".  Not so!

Today, as I completed the 125 question assessment I was surprised to find that my gifting has changed.  I still ranked high in the areas that used to rise to the top, but somewhere along the way, as I've grown in faith and obedience, and changed as a person - administration and leadership took the places of teaching and helps.  This was not shocking to me.  I was slightly surprised that hospitality was tied with leadership. 

I am left now to examine myself.  See, I know what my gifting is and that makes me responsible to use it.  Poop!  I need to figure out what I should be doing with what I've got.  I've been sloppy and lazy recently.  As I focus on growth over the next year, I've got to kick myself in the butt and get moving.  I am now responsible to do something.  So look out... here I come.


*** What are Spiritual Gifts? ***

*** What are my spiritual gifts? ***

Thursday, January 6, 2011

My Word


My sister shared a challenge with me this week.  She read something that a friend had written about choosing a word to strive for this year, instead of a goal or a resolution.  Simply a word.  It can be anything, as long as it is meaningful and you desire to achieve it.  I have thought about this for a couple of days and finally come to a decision about my word for 2011. 

GROW

It seems like I often end up in a rut, a dead place.  I look around and feel like we are back in the same mess, with the same problem, and no solution.  I frequently feel dull, unexcited, un-passionate, and lacking in areas that are so important to me.  I lack in faith, in family relationship, in kind words, in friendship, in energy, in health.  Oi!  I sometimes feel dead - like I am in the middle of winter.


In the coming year I want to focus on growing in all of those areas.  I want to grow personally, and with my family.  I am confident that I will grow in ways that I never imagined possible.  I am also certain that there will be times when I feel stuck and dead.  I hope that others will hold me accountable and ask about how I am growing.  Right now I am looking for the little bits of beauty popping up from the snow of my winter.  I am working to nurture these things with the help of my God and my family.  It is the start of a beautiful year.


My two little men, who started out so small are growing.  Crackers turns 1 on Saturday and Monkey will be 2 1/2 next week!  I look forward to helping them each grow in strength, independence, knowledge, faith, and wisdom.  I hope they grow in stature also - poor Monkey is going to be shorter than his brother by the end of the year if he doesn't hurry up and grow some.  These sweeties are a thing of beauty, a hidden nest, in the days that seem short and dark.


Now, I know that the word "grow" is not magical and that focusing on a word  is not going to make every day feel like 100%.  I also know that God is with me and guiding me.  As I grow in Him more over the next year, what some days feels like a cold, dead winter, will be a lush green forest of growth.  


Thank you, God for the opportunity to grow in you and in so many other ways.  I look forward to the coming year of growth that will bring so many surprises.  Help me to lean hard on you on the cold days and remember the beautiful things that I have seen around me.


What about you?  Do you have a word?  Do you want to grow?

Monday, December 27, 2010

Health

This morning health is on my mind.  My health, the health of my family and of my friends.  See, there are a lot of health needs out there and it seems like there are more all of the time.  Maybe that's just because I'm getting older.  Unfortunately there is little that I can offer to anyone, other than prayer and support.  Prayer is a huge thing though and amazing things happen because of prayer.

I am making a commitment right now to pray this year for the health of my friends and family.  If you have health needs that I know about, you are on my list.  (You are likely on  my list anyway).  Without mentioning names, here are a few of the needs that are on my list:

A baby with failure to thrive who is struggling to maintain a healthy weight.
A family member with diabetes and many other health concerns.
My own diabetes, which is currently out of control and needs to change.
A friend with digestion problems who is on an IV just to get enough nutrition to get by.
A friend that is pregnant and sick.
A friend with Chiari.
My little boy with long stretches of diarrhea, and speech difficulties.
My little boy with developmental challenges (who is doing amazingly).
Someone who has recently found out they are pregnant.
A former coworker with some big physical challenges.
A family member with early signs of MS.
A little boy whose skull needs to be reshaped.
A friend with MS.

There are more.  There is some big stuff going on in some people that I love dearly.  God cares, and listens when his people pray.  Please join me in praying for the health of friends and loved ones this year. 

Thursday, December 16, 2010

My ministry call and journey

This is a short version of my call to children's ministry, and my process of practicing my call.  I am getting ready to begin the search for a full time children's ministry position in a church.

When I was in high school, I knew that I wanted to be a teacher.  I even had the opportunity my senior year, to help in one of the elementary classrooms for one class period each day.  I made preparations to go to the best teaching college around.  I had no question about what I wanted to do.

And then... (it never happens like this, but I promise, this is what happened)
One day I was driving down the road taking a jaunt home from church to pick something up before evening service.  I heard God's voice... HEARD it audibly.  I heard, "You need to be a children's pastor".  I thought that was ridiculous.  Ihad never heard of a children's pastor.  What would such a person do?  Where would they work?  How would you prepare for something like that?

I did not tell anyone about my encounter with the divine, at all.  I thought it was just plain silly.  Months later, someone asked what I was going to study at college.  When I told them education, a discerning pastor butted in and said, "but it should be children's ministry."  I was aghast.  I still did not tell anyone about this, I went to college and started studying elementary education. 

I loved college life, but quickly realized that I really did need to figure out how to study for children's ministry.  1 1/2 years after I started college, I moved to a school that had a youth ministry program.  I ended up completing a church ministry degree after 5 years of college (and 4 schools).  It was a wonderful adventure and I learned a lot about myself in this journey.  I went on to seminary and completed my Masters of Divinity, then I began looking for the perfect children's ministry position.

While I was in college I helped in a variety of capacities with children's and youth ministry at the churches I attended.  I had an expectation that I would easily find a church that wanted to hire me as a full time children's pastor.  I interviewed with 4 or 5 churches and got 1 offer.  I sadly determined that I was not the right person for this ministry.

I ended up working at a children's home with young boys who had been abused, many of these boys also abused other children.  While working full time (and a lot of over time), I tried to help with ministry at my local church.  I helped with youth, and then volunteered to lead the children's ministry.  I discovered that working more than full time and volunteering for a position that needed full time attention, did not work for me. 

I dated, got married, had a baby, had a foster son, and then another foster son, and then another baby.. all within a year and a half of our wedding.  My children's ministry was in our home.  I also helped with the church youth group.

Now we have moved, we have no foster children, I stay home with my boys.  I need to be involved with children's ministry.  I volunteer in the church nursery about once a month, but that is not fulfilling my call.  I need to begin looking for a full time ministry position.  I don't know what that will mean for our family.  It might mean that we look at moving again, or that we split days at home with the boys, or have to consider daycare.  We are at the beginning of another phase of our family faith journey.

Thanks for reading.  If you have any knowledge about churches seeking children's ministers, please let me know!

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Santa Claus, Friend of Jesus?



This week my boys had the honor of seeing Santa Claus, twice!  Now, neither of these meetings was planned, but Manasseh was thrilled.  He has NO idea what Santa Claus is or what he has to do with Christmas.  Or even that Christmas is 11 days away.  OR that he's supposed to get presents for Christmas.  I am sure he will figure those things out soon enough.  I am so eager to help my boys experience the magic of the Christmas season that sometimes I forget to stop and make sure they know what it's all about. 

Today we saw the Santa at Riley Children's Hospital.  It was not planned, we just happened to walk in the door where he was stationed.  Manasseh was super excited, he sat on Santa's lap (he did not say anything, I don't think he has any idea what to say to Santa), and this Santa gave him 2 TY Beanie Babies, and a little one for Cassius.  While I registered Cash for his lab tests, Manasseh snuck back into the hallway and went straight to Santa.  Now, I think he just likes it that there is a character whom he recognizes.  If it were Dora or Larry the Cucumber or Woody, he would be the same way, I'm sure of that.  But that bothers me.


You see, if Manasseh saw someone in a Jesus costume walking down the hallway, he would keep going.  I'm not saying I want my kids to sit on some man's lap and smile at him and tell him how glad he is that he's there to see them.  I guess, I just realize the lack of biblical education that my children are getting right now.  It really bothers me, and you know what?  It's my own fault! 


So, in my house, I am pretty sure that Santa is NOT a friend of Jesus.  Neither are Bob the Tomato, or Lightening McQueen.  These things get in the way of Jesus in our house.  Bummer.  What do we need to do about this?  Well, for starters, in our house - we have to be more intentional about the stories our kids hear, and the activities they participate in.  Okay, not just the kids, but the parents!

What's my conclusion?  Just this:  I have to be intentional about leading my children toward an understanding of the Bible story.  I have to be intentional about limiting or eliminating the things that get in our way!